Tiberias trip - Day 1

This is the first blog post I've written in about two years, and I thought it was going to be a mini-series 'throwback', in which I told about my adventures alone with four kids, on vacation.  And then, at the last minute, Michal decided to join us (and Moriah the baby of the year is included by default).  So this is the story of a family - two parents, five kids (two are visiting grandparents overseas) - just vacationing together.

Prologue

Just over a month ago, Michal decided to go on a short program for religious women who need a break from their large families, in a resort in the south of the country.  I countered by reserving three nights in an Airbnb apartment in Tiberias to which I planned to bring the four children who would fall into my charge during the time she was away.  But alas, a few days later when she tried to register for the program, she discovered that not only was it planned for a week later than she had thought (and a week later than I had reserved the apartment in Tiberias), it was sold out.  She put herself on the waiting list, and told me the news.  Since it was unclear that if she go or not, and the Tiberias vacation (which I had already thoroughly planned out in my head) held a lot of appeal to me, I decided not to cancel or change my reservation.  Much later, since the apartment seemed to have enough room, and being stuck at home alone with a seven month old baby for four days didn't sound like that much fun, she decided to come with us.

The Trip There

Last night, we discovered we have a direct bus to Tiberias from a stop just around the corner from our apartment.  The bus only runs once every hour or two, and we were determined to be on the first one - departure time 10:30 am.  Miraculously, we made it to the bus stop by 10:10, without forgetting anyone or anything at home.  We were lugging with us a stroller, a port-a-crib (bed for the baby that folds into a duffel), two suitcases, a large (about 70 liter capacity) backpack, two small backpacks, a toddler-carrier backpack, an Baby Bjorn (for carrying infants), one teenager, two little boys, a toddler, and a seven month old baby.  

We arrived at the bus stop, proud of ourselves for our punctuality, only to discover a small crowd of Bnei Brak families (the bus line is a Hareidi community hub line, connecting the community of Bnei Brak with the large Hareidi community in Tiberias) already waiting for the bus to open its doors.  The cargo bay was already half full.  After a quick assessment of the numbers of people, I decided there would be room for everyone on the bus, and starting loading our luggage onto the bus.  Shortly thereafter the driver opened the bus doors.  We ending being the last family that was able to all travel seated.  Whew!

On the bus, leaving Bnei Brak

The bus began full, and the bus driver, apparently out of nothing more than a soft heart, stopped repeatedly to let people on condition of "standing room only".  One middle-aged woman who got on with a slew of children and and a couple grandchildren, who was standing in the aisle next to us, called and warned others over the phone about the dire situation.  Later on Michal offered the woman her seat, and she and Binyamin took turns standing.  Three little ones fell asleep for various parts of the near three hour bus ride.  At least we reached our destination, a bit stiff, but in surprisingly good spirits.

Deboarding group selfie in Tiberias

Arrival

It was horrendously hot outside, but our apartment was not far off (so we thought).  Our luggage caravan started slowly progressing through a neighborhood halfway up the mountain Tiberias is built on.  Two and a half blocks in, we reached the beginning of the street our apartment was on.  The first house's address was number 2.  Our apartment was 118.  In Israel, the buildings never skip numbers.  "Oh boy!" I said to myself, and we continued walking up the narrow street.  Around number 16, a wheel on one of the suitcases gave out.  "Oh crap!" I thought, how on Earth are we going to make it to the apartment?  Should I just order a taxi?  So we switched the crib out of the stroller and put the suitcase in its place, which made the stroller's small front wheels creak under the weight.  Binyamin went ahead to try and find the apartment, put down his load, and come back to help us with the rest of the things.  I thought we were around number 22, when he called my phone.  "I'm here," he said.  "Oh, there you are!  Go down that next set of stairs."  I looked down the street, and I saw Binyamin standing next to an old apartment building, about 50 meters away.  I guess maybe the numbers do skip, sometimes.

The building found us just in the nick of time

First Impression

We trudged up the three flights of stairs to the apartment and opened the door with a key that the owner had stowed in a small safebox he'd installed in the electrical closet in the stairwell.  We had had some small misgivings on the way, since the owner seemed profoundly inept at taking helpful pictures of his property.  On Airbnb, there were about a dozen pictures of the apartment, but there were still a lot of things that weren't clear - for instance, there were photos of wardrobes in two bedrooms, but not the beds in those rooms.  It seemed to be a large place, but there was no photo of a dining area.  Luckily, there were just enough beds for everyone, a proper dining room table and enough chairs for us to make do. The apartment was very clean and tidy, with a mediocre view of the Kineret (Sea of Galilee).

We quickly went about unpacking the suitcases, preparing lunch, and generally making ourselves comfortable.  I personally took care of the most important detail: connecting all our devices to the wifi.  Soon we were all fed, and the apartment a proper mess.

An Excursion of Sorts

Our plan for the first day was to get settled quickly, make a short shopping run for food for first 24 hours, and have time for a dip in the Kineret before the kids needed to get to bed.  So we split up into two parties: Binyamin and Amiel went to find a supermarket, and Noam and I went to find a nice spot to get into the water.  Tiberias is built along the side of a rather steep mountain, therefore all the roads are essentially switchbacks.  I mistakenly started to make my down to the beach but walking down the street we were situated on.  After about ten minutes I saw we were making very little progress in the downward direction, and we turned off that road and starting cutting down the mountainside on smaller streets and alleyways.  Around this point Noam's stamina gave out, due to the intense heat, and he claimed he couldn't walk any more.  I pulled him into a nearby yeshiva dormitory and gave him a couple of sips of water from a water cooler.  He was good as new.  We continued on, down towards the water.  Shortly after, we reached the downtown area and crossed through the marketplace, and then the shopping district that's right near the shore.  I suddenly found my mind flooded with memories, what felt like ancient memories.  

This is only the third time I have been to Tiberias.  The second was with my two brothers, at a rare moment in which all three of us were in Israel simultaneously.  We spent one night in Tiberias and attempted to hike to Tzfat.  The first time was when I was about to turn 16, over 20 years ago, with 90 other fellow Habonim kids.  The memories of that distant time now came flooding back as a passed through these places.  

Then we reached the water, and there came a jarring realization: that was back in the good old days, when the water was much higher.  Years of drought and a dependency of much of Israeli's population on the Kineret as its source of drinking water sent the shoreline plunging meters down.  Old piers hung in midair, relics of a golden bygone time.  We advanced along the Tayelet, the shoreline promenade, until a spotted a small rocky beach that seemed just what we were looking for.  We headed back up to the main street and I marked the entrypoint to the beach on my phone with by sending the location over WhatsApp to Michal.  Mission accomplished.

Due to a short phone call a few minutes earlier, I knew where Binyamin and Amiel were, and that they weren't finished shopping yet.  I also knew that they had reached the commercial district in a much quicker fashion than I.  I decided to join them and learn by what means had they descended so quickly from the apartment to the store.

We caught them at checkout.  Noam was giving out again, so Amiel took him to get a drink.  Part of the time they spent in the store had been dedicated to getting to now where the water cooler was.  Binyamin told me he followed the stairs down behind our building, and ended up right near the supermarket.  I was surprised and pleased.  On the way back we stopped in two stores in search of a waterproof cover for my cell phone, to no avail.  We sloughed up the steep slopes back to the apartment, with knowledge and groceries in hand.

Noam on the path connecting us to the city center

Change of Plans

Once we got back, we realized carrying out our plans to their fullest was going to be a major challenge.  It was already 5 in the afternoon, and at 7 two things were going to happen - Binyamin and I would have to leave in search of a minyan for Mincha ( the afternoon prayer, most commonly performed just before sundown), and the kids needed to start getting ready for bed.  Walking down to the beach (at least 20 minutes at Noam's pace) and back would only leave about an hour for splashing in the water, and almost no time to eat dinner, shower, brush teeth, and put on pajamas.  So a unanimous decision (by both decision makers) was made to postpone our first contact with the much-anticipated waters of the Kineret by a whole day.  Amiel cried about it, twice.  The other two small kids didn't seem to be paying enough attention to realize they were missing out on anything.  Life went on.  Dinner was prepared and consumed, children were prepared for bed, Binyamin and I discovered a pleasant little synagogue perched on the switchback immediately above our building, approximately a 90 second walk away.  

In the middle of all this, Michal got a call from the woman in charge of the mother's relief effort resort program, who told her she got in off the wait list, and if she still wants to come (it starts next Sunday), she needs to make a bank transfer for the full amount ASAP.  She told here she'll get back to her today.

At Mincha

After Mincha (and Maariv, the evening prayer, which happened twenty minutes later), we decided to ascend the mountain further and see the small compound which surround the burial cave of Rabbi Akiva.  Yes, the very Rabbi Akiva of the Mishna, who endorsed Bar Kochva as the Messiah, and all that jazz.  While I am skeptical about the authenticity of many of these holy grave sites, I was intrigued both because I had been reading some interesting historical notes about his time recently, and both by the possibility of finding an alternative place to pray in the morning, since the synagogue we had just frequented had morning prayers only at dawn (which means getting up at 5:30).

Rabbi Akiva's view of the city at dusk

We ascended to Rabbi Akiva, where we found that the Ramhal (Rabbi Moshe Haim Luzzato) was also buried right nearby.  But in the end there was no better alternative for the morning, since there they also pray at dawn, and it's a lot more uphill walking to get to.

Wrapping It Up

After returning, Michal expressed an interest in visiting the supermarket in order to get the shopping for the entire trip out of the way.  I agreed to accompany her, in order not to have to be left alone (since Binyamin was going to bed already), since she needed help lugging all the groceries back up the hill, and in order to make sure the less-healthy items on my list would also be bought.

The supermarket was already closing when we got there, so we shopped rather hurriedly.  There were so many things I wanted to buy, and to justify by telling myself "you're on vacation!", but less than half of them actually made it into the cart.  I wonder how it would have been different if I'd come with just the kids?  Would my better sense even then keep me from poisoning myself and my children with industrialized, chemical-infested, colorfully-packaged edibles?

Late night checkout

We got home around 10, resolved to get to bed promptly and get an early start in the morning.  Michal decided the mother's vacation with the baby would be too much trouble, and called the woman back to cancel, then got into bed after putting all the groceries away.  I sat down with the computer and stuck with this blog entry until well after midnight.  So much for resolutions.

All in all, our first day on 'vacation' felt just like our regular routine in a new setting.  Hopefully tomorrow will break us out of the routine completely.